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Anuradha Pandey's avatar

Brilliant. I'll take a rationalist bro over a feminist stifling debate any day. This also reminds me of the unfair tarnishing of Bernie supporters (IIRC, you were one?) as logic bros or just bros in general, because they had the inconvenient habit of questioning the logic of Clinton supporters. I never forgot it, and it may have been one thing animating my writing this whole time. Like a foundational injury that's healed, but I still remember vicariously.

Michael Woudenberg's avatar

It’s so much more fun to debate ideas. Years ago, I was in a group called Mixed Mental Arts, and the tagline was ‘grappling with complex ideas in the octagon of life.’

The problem is that the dude who was kind of the lead, didn’t like the ‘joe rogan bro’ who wanted to debate openly. Over time, he surrounded himself with more women, and the entire tone and tenor changed with excessive policing of language.

It went from Mixed Martial Arts to Idea Sex, and with that transition, it became all about intellectual masturbation… No one could get triggered. It became the opposite of studying your triggers and learning, and all about protecting others from those triggers.

I hadn’t really associated it with the feminization, but now that I look back, I can see it.

If you want to read a little more behind that experience, check out this one: https://www.polymathicbeing.com/p/triggered

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